Good evening guys, i know it’s been a while, still learning how to cope with all the elements in my life, the old and the new.
I’m here at Artisan Roast PJ, having a delicious Flat White to get my writing juices flowing.
So, Why do i write?
It was recently brought to my attention that my writing isn’t always in line with my actions. and yes, there is truth to that statement, but the thing is, that isn’t what my writing is about.
It isn’t about what i have achieved but more about the journey, more about aiming to achieve the best that I can, taking into account all the ups and downs. That’s why i even try to write on some Bad Days, because I don’t only want to be seen, or read, during my good days, but also during the bad ones.
is not just a way of expressing myself as i am, but a way of expressing the way I aim to live, it’s kind of me talking to myself, about the standards I aim to achieve for myself. It isn’t just about the progress and good things about me, but also about the falls, stumbles and crashes, to emphasise & remind everyone that we’re all human.
In my writing,
I make it a general point not to use “you” in my writing, so as to not to direct my points at the reader and point a finger at them and say that “you’re not living the right way, let me show you how.”
That’s not what I do.
That’s not what i believe in.
Everyone has a right to live life the way that works for them, so if my ways and thoughts on life work for you, then great, otherwise just carry on doing your own thing. (so long as you’re not hurting people & causing some major havok, #justsaying)
I’m not here to preach.
I do not believe that there is one right way of living.
I’m still finding my way, and i welcome anyone who wants to join me.
And that leads to my emphasis on using “we”.
Simply put, i want to connect with all of you, my readers, so that those of you who want to, can feel included as you read, and join me in all this if you wish.
What I write is my personal opinion based on my life, my thoughts, my learnings & my experiences, they don’t necessarily apply to you,
if you feel that you like my writings and they do appeal to you, then please join me in the aspects of life that I want to improve and change.
For example, my communication etiquette, to be specific, my phone habits. I was once told that i was being a hypocrite, that I didn’t apply what i was writing, as i mentioned above.
Sure, my phone habits are anything but perfect, I stray, but I have been making an effort to improve my communication etiquette and I do see results. My etiquette over the last 6 months has definitely improved, yes there is still plenty of room for improvement, but the fact is that I Am Moving Forward.
In this respect it is very important to understand the context of my writing, as mentioned above, a big part of it is about expressing the standards of living that i aim to live by. Therefore, in this context, it’s very important for me to ensure that i’m making progress, overall.
And if we compare it to last year, i’ve made a lot of Overall Progress.
Now what do i mean by “Overal Progress”.
I’ll leave that for next week 🙂
Sorry again for another long hiatus,
Straight From The Heart
Roshan ‘Arkay’ Kanesan